SUBSCRIBE: Superfans are created at the intersection of YOUR story and every CUSTOMER’S story. They are forged at that magical, overlapping point where it becomes obvious that you share a common purpose or passion. Your thing matters and is relevant to their thing. I’ve done several episodes of this podcast focused on crafting and sharing your story. So, in this episode, I’m sharing a five-step trick that will help you learn more about every customer’s story and accelerate the path to creating superfans. Remember, superfandom is a two-way street. If you want your customers to love you, you’ve got to love them back. Period. And, it’s really hard to love someone you don’t even know. Tune in to learn more about my S-T-O-R-Y framework, and don’t forget to head to BrittanyHodak.com/SUPER to download and fill in the customer persona template. Listen to the Episode Transcription Brittany Hodak [00:00:02]:Hello, and welcome to the Creating Superfans podcast. I’m Brittany Hodak, a speaker, author, and entrepreneur obsessed with all things customer experience. Here’s the thing. If your customers aren’t telling their friends about you, you’re in trouble. This podcast exists to help you turn more of those customers into those loyal fans that don’t just come back but also tell their friends. Last year, I launched a book called Creating Super Fans where I introduced something I call the supermodel. It’s a 5 part framework that’s all about customer experience. SUPER is an acronym. Brittany Hodak [00:00:36]:It stands for start with your story, understand your customer story, personalize, exceed expectations, and repeat. And over the 3 seasons of this podcast, I have talked a lot about that first step, s, start with your story. If you go back to season 1, in episode 19, my guest, Rory Vaden, does a really deep dive. And then in last season, season 2 episode number 13, in a solo episode, I share 10 often overlooked opportunities for you to share your story. Now, today, we’re talking about the second pillar of that supermodel, you, which is understand your customer story. Something that I often say is super vans are created at the intersection of your story and every customer’s because that is where you can overpower apathy, which is one of the strongest forces that exist in all of our lives. Story is how you make someone care more about you than your competitors. But if you’re not showing them that you truly understand theirs, they can feel like just another number, just another customer who’s nameless or faceless that really you’re just trying to like get the money at the end of the day and obviously that’s not how we want our customers or our prospects to feel. Brittany Hodak [00:01:52]:So today, we’re gonna dive into you. Understand your customer story. What does it mean? How can you do a better job of it? And why is it more critical than ever before in this world that is increasingly driven by commodities? Earlier this year, I was speaking at an event, and I met a gentleman who ran a law firm. And he was talking to me about how one of the things that he’s learned over the couple of decades that he’s run this firm is that the person who sits at the front desk, who’s answering phones, who’s greeting people that walk in off the street, has to have an incredible amount of empathy because most of the people who walk into his office or who pick up the phone and call his office are not doing it because they’re having a good time. They’ve either just been sued or they’re going through something really challenging. They’re maybe considering suing someone. So it’s a really emotional time. And he said when he interviews people for that receptionist position, one of the questions that he always asks is, have you ever been sued? And most people say, you know, no. Brittany Hodak [00:02:57]:I’ve never been sued, and they think that’s a great answer. But when he sees someone’s face drop or their heart sinks a little bit and they say, yes. I was sued once. Let me explain. He said he can almost always see, like, the hope drained from their face. They think that’s it. I’m not gonna get this job. But in reality, those are the candidates that he considers most strongly because it’s impossible to truly understand what it feels like for a customer or a prospective client in that moment if somebody hasn’t been through the extreme emotional turmoil that comes with being a party in a lawsuit. Brittany Hodak [00:03:38]:And he said, you know, obviously, I’m never gonna not hire someone because they haven’t been sued. But when I have 2 pretty equal candidates and I know one of them has been through that life changing experience, I wanna favor them because I know they’re going to have that empathy. Now one of the things that I talk about in my book, particularly as it comes to this you pillar of the supermodel, is the idea of empathy and authority working together. Too often, we are excited about showing our authority. We wanna lead with the accolades, the strengths, the products, the benefits, but as Teddy Roosevelt once said, people don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care. It’s the idea of leading with empathy because that empathy opens the door for authority, and it makes it much more powerful. When you can, as my friend Phil Jones likes to say, earn the right to make a recommendation because of something you heard someone say, they’re going to take that recommendation much more seriously. Alright. Brittany Hodak [00:04:45]:So this is a little bit like a turducken of an acronym because I’m about to share an acronym inside of an acronym. But when I talk about understanding your customer’s story, story is a secondary framework that stands for struggles, transformation, options, reservations, and you. And if